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Skip to content. I have never had sex, but I have tried now twice with my boyfriend, and it has been incredibly painful. It felt like there was a barrier inside me, and the second time I bled.

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OK, so you're thinking about having sex for the first time and you just have SO. Will losing your virginity hurt a lot? And like, how much?

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Your first time having sex can be the subject of a lot of excitement, but it can also carry feelings of fear or anxiety. Mostly, though, it's hard to imagine what it will actually be like when it happens. For many of us, the only conception we have of our first time is what we see in the movies, but those portrayals don't very often get it right — especially when it comes to the first time.

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I've listened to a lot of women, both straight and queer, talk about sex through the years, and there are, in my experience, two normal reactions to experiencing pain during sex. Note: I can pretty much guarantee that your cervix is not a secret vampire. Both of these are driven by one thing: misinformation. You're probably not going to die, but you still should get it checked out.

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Overcoming painful virginity loss and pain in early intercourse is a very common occurrence. Are you a woman who is new to the world of sex, or are you considering having intercourse for the first time? Have you recently lost your virginity, and were disappointed to find that you experienced a painful virginity loss?

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After all, everyone is different and sex is a learning process! So, how can you reduce the amount of pain you feel? Take some time and evaluate your own expectations.

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If you have a vaginayour knowledge about the hymen probably starts and ends with something about virginity. Or so the theory goes. This thin membrane can tear from so many other things besides sexual intercourse.

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It's Metafilter's 20th anniversary! To celebrate, scan some cats or help fund Mefi! When does sex stop being painful and start being possible? If not, how long was it before it did?

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The following situations and conditions can contribute to or cause pain during intercourse or other forms of penetration. The first few times you have intercourse or experience vaginal penetration, you may feel a small to moderate amount of pain at the entrance to the vagina. There can be some bleeding or no bleeding at all—both are normal.

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But how often do we actually hear the nitty-gritty details of how we might actually achieve those things? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a licensed sex psychotherapist based in San Francisco, to help us out with the specifics. A: Thanks so much for your question. Here's what you need to know.

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