There is much much more that goes on in human physiology, the human mind, the human heart and the human soul than just the physical act of sex. Sexual climax is a powerful tool and serves a purpose. It is a tool that is meant to accomplish many things and that is why it feels so awesome.
It's Metafilter's 20th anniversary! To celebrate, scan some cats or help fund Mefi! Unfortunately, they, like us, are very reserved, and don't tend to talk about sex, so we have no idea how to begin to broach the subject.
We have been together for a decade, married for years. We tell each other just about everything and there is no one I like hanging out with more than my husband. This space is so safe, so sacred, and so honest that it has given permission to the expression of innermost longings, fantasies, and daydreams.
Having sex with other couples can be really hot IF you're all on the same page. The swinglifestyle is nothing new. The concept of swingers and swinging has been around for years.
One of the biggest misconceptions from those outside the swinging arena is that women are forced into the lifestyle by their husbands or partners. Granted, one spouse might bring up the subject of swinging, but maintaining an active role in the swinging lifestyle is definitely a consensual agreement between both partners. Would I have ever given swinging a try had John not already been involved?
This is a very difficult situation which I have more or less brought upon myself. It all started so simply and yet it has turned my life upside down. One night my wife and I were watching a programme which was dealing with the rise in couples swinging.
A question on how to get your wife into swinging is a question that has been asked by many people. First, you should take your time and discuss with your wife for you to make a decision whether swinging is an adventure that you will really like to pursue. You may be that kind of a person who cannot see her with another man, in case you are that kind of a person, then swinging may not be the right thing for you to engage in.
From swinging to polyamory, there are plenty of subcategories that fall under the larger umbrella term. But how do you know if any of them are right for you? First, you can consider the experiences of people already in open relationships, who have shared their stories with the Cut: Open marriage taught one man about feminism.